戴尔·卡耐基（Dale Carnegie，1888 —1955）， 美国作家和讲师，也是自我提升、推销、企业培训、公开演讲和人际交往技巧等课程的开发者。他出生在密苏里州一个小小的的农场，生活贫困。他是《如何赢得朋友和影响他人》(How to Win Friends and Influence People)一书的作者，这本书至今仍很受欢迎。他还写了《如何停止忧虑，开始生活》、《未知的林肯》和其它几本书。
Remember, today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.
Do the thing you fear to do and keep on doing it… that is the quickest and surest way ever yet discovered to conquer fear.
The essence of all art is to have pleasure in giving pleasure.
One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today.
我所知道的人性中最可悲的地方在于人人都不去生活 , 却梦想着天边奇幻的玫瑰园 , 而没有去欣赏今天绽放在我们窗外的玫瑰。
You can’t win an argument. You can’t because if you lose it, you lose it; and if you win it, you lose it.
There are four ways, and only four ways, in which we have contact with the world. We are evaluated and classified by these four contacts: what we do, how we look, what we say, and how we say it.
我们与世界接触有四种方式，也只有这四种方式。 同时人们也通过这四种接触方式来评估我们: 我们做什么，我们的外表，我们说什么，以及我们怎么说。
Many people think that if they were only in some other place, or had some other job, they would be happy. Well, that is doubtful. So get as much happiness out of what you are doing as you can and don’t put off being happy until some future date.
"It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.
Happiness doesn’t depend on any external conditions, it is governed by our mental attitude.
Our fatigue is often caused not by work, but by worry, frustration and resentment.
Feeling sorry for yourself, and your present condition, is not only a waste of energy but the worst habit you could possibly have.
Are you bored with life? Then throw yourself into some work you believe in with all your heart, live for it, die for it, and you will find happiness that you had thought could never be yours.
You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.
The person who seeks all their applause from outside has their happiness in another’s keeping.
Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage.
The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
Act as if you were already happy and that will tend to make you happy.
When we hate our enemies, we are giving them power over us: power over our sleep, our appetites, our blood pressure, our health, and our happiness."当我们恨我们的敌人时，我们就给了他们控制我们的力量: 控制我们的睡眠、食欲、血压、健康和幸福。
Don't ask a man what is important to him. Watch how he spends his time.不要问什么对一个人来说是重要的。看看他是如何打发时间的。
Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain - and most fools do. But it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving.
If you do something for someone else, never remember. If someone does something for you, never forget.
When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion.
If you are not in the process of becoming the person you want to be, you are automatically engaged in becoming the person you don't want to be.
First ask yourself: What is the worst that can happen? Then prepare to accept it. Then proceed to improve on the worst.
首先问自己: 最坏的结果是什么? 然后准备好接受它。然后在最坏的情况下继续改进。
For remember, fear doesn’t exist anywhere except in the mind.
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